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a birthday breakfast picnic in blue for year two

10/25/2016

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Toddler Birthday: Blue Plaid Breakfast Picnic // 6 Thoughts about hosting a minimalistic kid's birthday party
Rowan turned two this month, and we had a birthday breakfast picnic with our family + a few of his little friends. And I did it! I finally did it! I threw a low-key party without stressing (except once for five minutes), no crafting, and zero let-down expectations.  

The only theme I did was everything in dark blue (his favorite color). So I used picnic blanket plaids in blue and had lots and lots of blue balloons around his birthday present -- a teepee! (I figured this was the last year before he was fully talking and submitting birthday theme requests, so I took it and ran! One last, easy, cutesy party before dinosaurs invade my life!)

chill out, crafty mama...

Low-key modification #1 - Don't have the party in your house.  Well, renting a pavilion at a park on the weekends costs way more than you'd think, so I had a different idea for our picnic. We just used our FRONT yard.  It keeps everything open for people to stop by easily, you don't feel like you have to clean every nook and cranny inside of your house, and our dogs were out of the way when they needed to be.  It worked out really well!  And I didn't have to lose my mind during the week as Rowan destroyed the house 17 different times. I just kept thinking, hey if I end up with no time to clean this up, IT WILL BE OKAY! 

Low-key modification #2 - Don't do DIYs. That's such a funny thing to say in a Pinterest generation, but sometimes you just have to say no!  Our DIYs included setting up the tables and picnic blankets and making delicious breakfast.  That was enough.  If you have a toddler, maybe just overachieve in another life phase.  Target dollar-spot that shiz or recycle last year's decor. Ask family to help contribute some food items.

  • We did make a low-sugar chocolate cake with coconut sugar & cream cheese icing ourselves... and by ourselves, I mean Zack did it.
  • Other homemade food included egg & veggie bites + pumpkin muffins
  • I searched around for blue plaid, and found nothing. Then Target came through like the mind-readers they are and tons of blue plaid things suddenly popped up in the dollar spot just a couple of weeks before the party! Seriously, Target, who do you have stalking me?
  • Finally, the teepee was mostly just a splurge purchase (but it was his only present from us). If you have been eyeing some Land of Nod goodies, just wait until things hit the sale section, sign up for their email list and get 10% off, or they ALSO have free shipping sometimes -- which is why I finally bit the bullet and ordered one. It was so easy to assemble and is such nice quality. I have no regrets. *That's an affiliate link, because I really love Land of Nod when I can afford it and love to sing their praises.*

Low-key modification #3 - BREAKFAST! This was my favorite element for a little kid party.  Usually people with kids are up early anyway, so a 9 am start time doesn't sound ungodly.  Also, if your 2 year old woke up at 6am, they will have been awake for 4-5 hours by the time you start your 10-11am party and will be crashing straight into nap time towards the end.  9:00 was the golden hour.  By 11:00 the sensory overload of people, presents, and cake was still hitting the crash zone, but he was able to take a little 5-minute quiet moment and keep playing happily to the very end. Also-ALSO... breakfast food! It's the best.
Toddler Birthday: Blue Plaid Breakfast Picnic // 6 Thoughts about hosting a minimalistic kid's birthday party
Toddler Birthday: Blue Plaid Breakfast Picnic // 6 Thoughts about hosting a minimalistic kid's birthday party
Toddler Birthday: Blue Plaid Breakfast Picnic // 6 Thoughts about hosting a minimalistic kid's birthday party
Toddler Birthday: Blue Plaid Breakfast Picnic // 6 Thoughts about hosting a minimalistic kid's birthday party
Toddler Birthday: Blue Plaid Breakfast Picnic // 6 Thoughts about hosting a minimalistic kid's birthday party

Note taken...

Since I know I have a plethora of birthday parties in my future (even not counting any future children who don't exist yet), what lessons do I have for my future self and other party-lovin' mamas?

​Lesson #1 - Rein in the Grandmas!  A two year old -- or any age kid for that matter -- is going to have a crazy time opening multiple presents alllll at once.  If you aren't saving the presents to open later and decide to enter the madness, I think that anyone (*cough* Grandparents *cough*) who has multiple gifts for your little bundle of joy should just pick one for the party and leave the rest with you so they can be enjoyed more slowly later. 
Toddler Birthday: Blue Plaid Breakfast Picnic // 6 Thoughts about hosting a minimalistic kid's birthday party
Toddler Birthday: Blue Plaid Breakfast Picnic // 6 Thoughts about hosting a minimalistic kid's birthday party
Toddler Birthday: Blue Plaid Breakfast Picnic // 6 Thoughts about hosting a minimalistic kid's birthday party
Toddler Birthday: Blue Plaid Breakfast Picnic // 6 Thoughts about hosting a minimalistic kid's birthday party
Toddler Birthday: Blue Plaid Breakfast Picnic // 6 Thoughts about hosting a minimalistic kid's birthday party
Lesson #2 - Balloons droop, balloons pop.  <--Now say that 3 times fast... aha! Bet you said poop! I'm a mature adult, you guys. Thanks to the super sassy balloon guy at Publix, I did not get to buy my balloons the night before the party.  10 days later, the mylar balloons are still nearly fully inflated, but the latex balloons were droopy less than 12 hours later.  So thanks, Publix guy. The 7am errand was worth it.  In place of a kids party favor, I bought some round, blue punching balloons.  FYI - These do not need to be blown up all the way.  They were just popping and popping like crazy! It's not a big deal since they came in packs of 30, but seeing the joy of toddler faces suddenly turn to horror is a sad thing! Just let the balloons be smaller... It ain't no thang.

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Lesson #3 - Fall & Spring are tricksters.  October is the driest year of the month (and we are even currently in a drought), so I had zero worry about having an outdoor picnic party.  What I didn't think about was that even though the temperature was perfect, the sun was still blaring down on us and it got pretty warm.  I prepared for our yard to have a few shady areas, but since we live in Alabama I'm going to start planning for any outdoor party to be more on the warm side than cooler side.  Then if it happens to be sweater weather one year, we will just be happily surprised!  ...More water, less hot apple cider.
Blue Plaid Birthday Picnic handmade invitation suite for a fall birthday
This is how silly I am... I made an invitation, but then just emailed it to family and texted friends. #balance
Toddler Birthday: Blue Plaid Breakfast Picnic // 6 Thoughts about hosting a minimalistic kid's birthday party
Any other things you parentals have learned from hosting years of birthday parties? Please share!

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3 Comments
Tammy
10/27/2016 06:39:28 am

Only happy thoughts when I see these beautiful pics. Loved everything! It was fun, because he was so excited about everything this year. Having it right where he plays every day, in his own front yard, just made sense. It was on his home turf, so he was happy and at ease. With birthdays, if an idea can be practical and fun at the same time, you both win. :)

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Meredith Golden
10/27/2016 09:19:46 am

I'm sitting here reading this list of "how to make your child's birthday simple" while doing a DIY project for Trace's, stressing about how I'm going to go pick up his smash cake later today during nap time, and wishing everyone would RSVP so I know how much pizza to buy! Oh well, I'll take your advice next year lol

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Ginger link
10/27/2016 10:55:15 am

Hahaha! At least you aren't having the party at your house! 👍🏻 You're right on track.

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